Monday, June 30, 2008

Upside of Nesting -Call For Photos

Here at UpsideDive, we will be exploring interior spaces -your interior spaces.

We're asking for photos of your homes, rooms, dorms, or whatever space you reside in. What style is creeping in your corners, what style is missing from your want list? We'd love to share these pics on future blogs... if you have a space challenge, we'd like to help. If you're satisfied with your space, we'd love to gawk and goo and gaa over the results.

Send photos to upsidedive@gmail.com. Hey, you show us yours, we'll show you ours.

(New items coming next week: mid-century buffet and hutch in walnut finish, amoeba formica coffee table)

Friday, June 27, 2008

Upside of Fashion... Mono What?!



Monokini! We came across this most questionable term. Puzzled we decided to do some research. It appears that the monokini can refer to one of two things. 

1)The equivalent to a bikini bottom worn independently as a one-piece bathing suit resulting in a topless ensemble. Gained popularity with the women's rights movement of the '60s.

2)A one-piece swimsuit inspired by the style of the bikini. Using chains, strings, and strategic strips of fabric to join the lower and upper portions of the suit.*




























Originally designed in 1964 by Austrian born American designer Rudi Gernreich, the monokini debuted with such a commotion it doomed itself into obscurity. Today known predominantly by '60s fashion hounds and swimwear enthusiasts, with jumpers and rompers on rise it's bound to make a come back. Especially in a time when women are moving into powerful positions(well almost i.e. Mrs. Clinton), support for women's rights is never more needed. You might say that it's just a bathing suit and an objectifying one at that, but we disagree. As equal to her male counterpart, it's a female's right to choose if she would like to go topless or not. With Pride weekend in full swing we hope to see more women expressing this right. And thanks to Mr. Gernreich you can put this into practice in full style. 


















*thank you wiki! 
photo 2 : delia's, photo 3 & 4 : victoria's secret photo 1 & 6 : Rudi Gernreich's Original Monokini

Thursday, June 26, 2008

Upside of Culture - Where's the Party?




















































"Now were comin' out, Out of our closets, Out on the streets, Yeah, were comin' out..." Lou Reed croons what I like to call the soundtrack to the end of yet another June. Though it's really the kick-start to summer, this is when it truly heats up. Pride festivities hit Toronto and sexuality and identity battle and dance it out for up to a weeks' time. The celebration usually takes off on the Friday and doesn't stop till early Monday morn'. And although it can get a lil' corporate at times, it's still a highlight to the summer in the city. Big or small there is always too much to do in sooo little time. Over the next three days here are some events that you must make it out for:

Friday June 27th

- Seniors' Pride on the Island.
Join 50+ Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual/Tanssexual/Transgender/Intersex/Queer/Questioning/2Spirited Peoples seniors and their families for festivities on Ward's Island including a lunchtime BBQ($7). It makes us happy that events like this one geared to all ages are happening, these folk are the reason Pride exists.

- Frydaze at Gladstone Hotel - Melody Bar
Various art exhibitions, live music by Shitt Hott and Satans Candy with "Boylesque" male burlesque dancers. http://www.gladstonehotel.com/events/
- Vazaleen : Shame - Wrongbar
If you got tickets to Will Munro's infamous art/dance night you're very lucky. It happens once again this time with headliners SSION who are said to put on an untouchable performance.

- Congorock + Leif - The Drake Underground
Dance your brains out. Nuff said. http://www.thedrakehotel.ca/events/6640/pride-congorock-leif-stop-die-resuscitate-dj-geoff-snack

Saturday June 28th

-Pride and Remembrance Run - Church & Wellsley
While the rest of us are nursing hangovers and munchin' brunch, these awesome folk are out running to raise money for Youthline Outreach Program and the Inside Out Queer Youth Digital Video Project. So get off yo' ass and cheer them on. Starts at 10am.

-Family Pride : Mask Making - Church Street Public School
Who doesn't want to get super silly and make a mask that you won't take off till Monday morning. 12-1pm.

-Dyke March
Because it's super important that the march happens. For all the hype the parade gets these ladies really do march for pride.
Starts at 2pm. http://www.pridetoronto.com/dyke.php


-Big Primpin' House Party - The Drake Hotel Complex
Dance till you drop to the oh-so gay night of dancehall/electro/bling-hop/booty and more. $10 at the door, 8pm - 4am.

-Love is Love : Block Party - Levack Block 88 Ossington Ave.
A big ol' gay block party with DJ Barbi and DJ Dalia at the tables this party's got it goin' on! 10pm

- Church Street Stage Shows
All of Saturday and Sunday a ton of awesome bands play the spread out stages for free ta boot! Make sure to check out the Hidden Cameras Saturday at 11pm and Kids on TV and MEN(JD Samson and Johanna Fateman of Le Tigre fame) on Sunday at 3pm.

Sunday June 29th

-Pride Parade - Yonge Street
Through all the corporate sponsors and sunstroke, it's the lil' people that are the real attraction. Like the Gay Geeks and the PFLAG folk. They warm my heart. After the parade work your way over to Church St and take in the drag queen cat fights and a crowd that is rivaled only by Church St. during halloween.

If you've got any pride plans of your own you'd like to share, post them below in the comments. Sometimes the small get togethers/parties are the ones not to miss, most often they hold a deeper sense of community. See you on the streets...

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Dahling Dora: It's The Bees-Hive Knees

Dear Dora,

I've always wondered how a beehive hairdo is made. Can you tell me how someone would create this masterpiece?

Signed,
Curious Kitten


Dearest CK,

The Beehive was also referred to as the B-52 -something about resembling the nose of a bomber with the same name, and also inspired the look and name of the new wave band The B-52s. It was created in 1960 by an illinois hairdresser, Margaret Vinci Heldt. Sadly, the popularity of the beehive died out in the late 60s, but it remains a classic icon of kitsch to this day.

This faboo do' can be recreated with some simple tools and a little bit of patience. It is mainly comprised of three simple principles: curling, teasing, and spraying. For a more inviting look and less Amy Winehouse hornet-nest, sweep up those mullet straggles and leave the height to the birds.

Here are the basic tools you will need:
LARGE OR JUMBO ROLLERS; OR LARGE CURLING IRON
COMB
BOBBY PINS AND CLIPS
STYLING MOUSE OR GEL
EXTRA HOLD HAIRSPRAY

Follow the step-by-step instructions from ehow's fashion, style, and personal care editor below:

Step 1
Shampoo the hair with a good moisturizing shampoo and pat it dry with a soft towel.

Step 2
Set the hair in curlers, electric rollers or with a curling iron, but don't brush through the curls. Giving the hair some curl will help to provide volume and height when you begin styling the beehive.

Step 3
Work a generous amount of hair spray, styling mousse or styling gel into the roots of the hair.

Step 4
Separate the hair between your forehead and the crown of your head and clip it to one side. This section will be styled last.

Step 5
Begin in the upper part of the back of your head and section the hair across the back of your head. Bring the section up towards the front of your head, and secure it with hair gel and bobby pins.

Step 6
Continue one section at a time, bringing each section up and over the previous section, building layers and pinning them as you go. Each layer that you add will increase the height of the beehive.

Step 7
Style the front section any way you like. You can pull it up over the top of the beehive, adding more height, or style it across the forehead. Give the entire beehive an additional misting of hair spray.

Tips & Warnings
Modern beehive hairdos typically aren't as tall as the original beehive hairdos. However, if you want to add height to your beehive, use the tail of a rattail comb to push into the beehive, carefully lifting it up. 

(You can find original post here: http://www.ehow.com/how_2294425_style-modern-beehive-hairdo.html )





































Check out 'hair archives' for an idea of setting rollers for beehive coiffs: http://www.hairarchives.com/private/archive2/beehive/beehive.htm

Although the steps to achieving this look may seem complicated, the results may just be worth it. Just think of the benefits. You'll be instantly taller, you'll be able to balance dinner to the table, and lastly you'll have a handy place for storing- a carton of cigarettes, your wallet, a clown, the diva cup, a rainbow, the Bermuda Triangle, mace, chocolate covered raisins, Don Knots and the rest of the Mayberry clan...oh and let's not forget the kitchen sink.

DD
(photos taken from above hairarchive link)

Monday, June 23, 2008

Upside of Nesting -Patio Partios

Summer is all about the outdoor festivities. Patios, pools, parks. The kids at UpsideDive thought it might be fun to make up themes to summer time parties. Here we have three invitations to three very wacky parties. Wacky enough that they might actually happen...


Tash insists on:

SHAKE, SHAKE SENORA!
Babies. I'm having a Kitsch Cabana Party, and you lucky devils are invited! My Back patio has been transformed into a poolside paradise, pool boy included! Dresscode is coconuts, grassskirts, speedos, big hair, sarongs and skin, skin, skin!
We'll be dining on honey glazed roasted pineapple and tofu & veggie shish kebabs. Don't worry about booze dahling, Randy Rye and Rum Punch and Cuba Libres will be served at 5pm and all night long till the sunrises over the limbo pole. You like? I like!



Mike's keen on:

COME ON BARBIE, LET'S GO PARTY!
Because I love plastic, you, and everyone you know, i'm having a Best Barbie Ever Party. Of course you'll come dressed up as your favourite Barbie or Barbie character complete with accessories. The back deck will be blanketed in astro turf and artificial everything. Sweets and candy to snack on and Pink lady and Royal Fizz drinks a plently! At midnight a crown and fake flowers will be awarded to the Best Barbie Ever. Show up fashionably late, but technically the party starts at 7pm.



Angie goes crazy for:

FEAR FACTOR: FOR THE LOVE OF ASPIC!
Is fear a factor for you??? Calling all aproned house-fraus and Ward Cleaver suits... you are invited to the ultimate foody fear factor- can you face the mesmerizing yet gag invoking power of the oh so versatile, beautiful but deadly... jellied salad? Join us at 8pm to witness or test your strength in the salad eating contest of 'Jellied Olive and Carrot,' & 'Ambrosia Mayo Medley'. Bring your appetite, suppress your fear of all things jiggly and unappetizing. (We'll have agar based jelly -an animal-friendly version of gelatin.) Stick around for the final fear tasting show-down of mystery mould! Jello shooters and head-cheese to follow. Be there or be a rainbow jell-o-cube square!




(Pic#1 from speedojunkie.blogspot.com, Pic#2 copyright Mattel, Pic#3 from the Joys of Jello, General Foods)

Friday, June 20, 2008

Upside of...Fashion







The soundtrack playing in our head sounds like this...
We waaant ROM-PERS, la-la-la-la-la-la...
Short...short ROM-PERS! la-la-la-la-la-la...

we heart designs from Moschino and TopShop, yup yup!

(top 2 pics from Moschino's Spring 08 line; last 3 pics from TopShop Spring 08)

Thursday, June 19, 2008

Upside of...Culture















































































Sketch in Toronto

Last weekend we attended and set up a booth at the Better Reasons Festival -a celebration of art, music, and independent culture held at Tranzac off Bloor. It was put together by Blocks Blocks Blocks Recording Club, Fuzzy Logic Recordings, Out of this Spark and the Tranzac; proceeds raised during the 3-day event were donated to Sketch a Toronto based organization which "creates art making opportunities for young people who live street-involved and homeless, or who are considered to be at risk." Sketch offers space for self-expression, mentorship and apprenticeship in arts, educational support for positions in art fields, jobs, various instructional workshops from screen printing to dance, as well as art exhibition and work for sale. Visit them @ http://www.sketch.ca/
Until that event, we had never heard of Sketch and was unaware that this organization existed in our city and of the great work they were doing. It surprises us how little coverage and media attention non-profit groups like Sketch actually get. These are the kinds of organizations that work hand-to-hand with people in our community, and yet they get little recognition, little attention. They are the groups that need shout outs, that depend on donations and the support of their community.

We will be taking a jaunt over to their headquarters located at 580 King St.(2nd floor) next week. If you would like to volunteer or provide a donation, check out the website under "How you Can Help" section or contact them directly: http://sketch.ca/contact.html

So we say, venture out, find out what's happening in your backyard, and get involved...you might be pleasantly surprised.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Upside on ...sustainability

We talk about sustainability. We dream about guiltless homes, dwellings that future generations can enjoy and cycles that continue to benefit all. Talking is easy - what would be truly amazing is if sustainability was second-nature, as if there was no other way of living. But that's quite a big jump, so Wednesday's blog topics will hope to take it one step at a time.
There aren't any formulas or textbooks, so where do we start? Well, with summer in full swing, take a look at your eating habits. Summer is the perfect time to incorporate produce from your local farmers' markets into your weekly groceries. I know this might sound easy at first, but it can be quite tough.
There are many markets here in Toronto, and most likely in your neighbourhoods too. The best way to start shopping local and supporting these markets is to first decide what meals you'd like to make for the week and what you'll need to make them. Make a list, but keep in mind that you might need to improvise once at the market - the idea is to eat as seasonally as possible.
Bring your list and your own bags and take a walk of the market first to see what everyone is selling. Don't be afraid to ask about the farms/farmers, where the produce is from and how it's grown. Sometimes farmers will fill in their stock with imported produce that they don't/can't grow. Try to avoid this. The same goes for your local butcher/dairy shop, ask questions, they'll be more than happy to answer them.
Now the tough part is to get enough portions to last the week, but not so much that food goes bad. Try your best not to break under pressure and hit up the closest major grocery store. If there's something you're craving or would like to add to your meal that you can't get from an independent local producer, than go without it. Convenience has become a terrrible luxury. This change takes time. As the seasons progress you might hit some bumps in your routine but keep at it. You'll see a difference - we promise - in the way you feel and in the taste of your food. The amount of waste you'll produce will drop as well (other than compostable matter, which we'll talk about in a future blog post). Getting your shopping done all at once means you'll have more time on your hands to spend on things you enjoy. And so the beneficial cycle begins.
Below is a link to the Toronto Farmers' Market Network with some markets in the area to definitely take in. If you know some that we've forgotten or even some in your area, feel free to post a comment. And let us know if you've tried this challenge and how it goes. Of course we'll keep you posted on our own adventures.

Toronto Farmers' Market Network:

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Dahling Dora:The Skinny on Fat

Help Dora! 

I'm worried about my younger sister and her obsession with weight. She constantly shows me weight loss ads and pictures. She thinks she's fat and that boys won't like her if she's heavy. She's only 8! I don't know what to say or how to approach her- there's a large age difference between us and she sees me just as an older brother. What advice can I give that would get through to her?

Signed,
Worried Brother



Dearest WB,

How nice it is to see men concerned about poor self-image in women –be it sisters or not, as this is an issue that concerns and affects all genders. To address the answer, we must look at society’s perception in shaping such insecurities.

Decades of misguided advice has been given to women across North America by, dare I say it, other women! Take for example the flatulently titled 1964 book by Arlene Dahls entitled “Always Ask a Man, Key to Femininity”.

From page 27: Delicacy and refinement are the hallmarks of femininity-and when a woman gorges herself she is destroying that precious illusion of feminine charm just as surely as she is destroying her figure. Puh-lease, Arlene, puhlease.

Although Alrene emphasizes the importance of health in related diets and does spout some adequate advice, her quest to place an ideal of femininity above all runs the same risk of disconnection that play-bunny reality shows and airbrushed magazine covers do of today. Sadly, the 21st century has not resolved our quest to fit the “perfect mold”.

One of those perceptions of beauty is, and will likely always be, weight. Your younger sister has the filament of social thinking that aims to target women at young ages in order to groom them into the ideal beauty. This is what will keep them buying cellulite creams, diet pills, slimming gadgets and non-fat yogurts well into their senior years (have you seen the variety of yogurts out there? It’s madness…but I digress).

That is the sad truth of the images your sister is bombarded with. It begins with personal insecurity, is capitalized by commercial opportunity, and lastly supported in whole by society. Sounds heady and complicated? Well, it is.

So to cut through all the rhetoric, here are some suggestions to try:

Introduce positive role models into her life –bring over girl friends that vary in size, style, and shapes. Let your sister know that each of them has their own insecurities and skills, some visible, some not. You can casually mention it in conversation and go further into discussion once your sister takes the bite.

Perspective can be a lifesaver. Clip magazine images of women who do not fit ideal weight molds but are highlighted for their overall beauty, success, and individuality. Bring in books, magazines, videos, music cds and clippings that challenge ideals of standard beauty. Draw compliments unrelated to weight. Go through family photos- point out that even when the women in her life like mom, aunts, and friends, change, grow older, gain weight, they aren’t loved or valued any less.

Put your money where your mouth is. When you think she doesn’t care what her older brother thinks, or you think she isn’t listening, those messages and attitude sink in. That means being respectful and mindful of your actions; no catcalls, no objectifying women as sex objects, no rude remarks or jabs at a woman’s weight –in and out of her presence. You can’t expect her to change her attitude if you aren’t willing to.

Take the importance and emphasis away from weight. Encourage and get her involved into crafts, sports, nature, volunteering, any activity that rewards involvement and strength of character. Stay away from activities that perpetuate ideals: like beauty pageants, next top model, Nicole Ritchie…

Failing any of these, watch Lilo and Stitch, Hairspray, or videos of Beth Ditto from The Gossip. Ultimately, each of us will have to decide how we view ourselves, but if we’ve had encouraging support along the way, hopefully the decision becomes easier.

DD









(various slimming/weight gaining ads from Women's Journal October 1934, Women's World October 1935, Too fat, too thin -would you make up your mind already? Jeesh)

Monday, June 16, 2008

Upside of...nesting

Maximizing Plants in Your Living Space

The experience of nurturing flora is challenging because you can’t always tell what they need. Having their best interest in mind doesn’t always translate into healthy, happy plants. Plants are not outright expressive, as say, children or pets. In the case of neglect, they eventually show signs of too much or too little feeding, watering, or light, signs that can often come too late.

It can be very rewarding though when raising plants is done well, as we often enjoy the fruits of labour; edible fruit & veggie bearing plants or simply blooms in colour.

Plants bring in an immediate natural and earthy sensibility. They are an instant way to connect to the outdoors. We can benefit by their air cleansing properties, yummy scents, the way they soften hard edges in furniture and design, and bring immediate life to a space- literally. Plants do this quietly. Although this can be a downfall for busy bodies, who, in not hearing the reminding whines or cries of hunger, may neglect such silent plants.

It often seems acceptable to simply replace dead or sick plants with new ones without much thought to their prior care. They should be considered a responsibility, as much so as bringing a cat or dog, or other living being into your home. So perhaps you have decided to support a plant and are committed to raising one or two, or many. Perhaps you’ve done some research on raising plants and spoken with gardening enthusiasts, but are now wondering how to incorporate them into your home beyond the ‘plant in a pot’ syndrome?

We have 5 ideas worth considering.

1. A ceiling can be a plants’ best friend. Hanging plants are a great way to incorporate plants into your home without taking up floor or wall space. This is a great option for small spaces and high ceilings. We suggest Macramé holders –stick with black or beige, jute and twine, or subtle wooden beads for earthy, and surprisingly contemporary style. Stay clear of overly ornate patterns and finishes. For retro flair, use colours like burnt orange, and avocado green. Group them alone or with fixtures like lights or mobiles to create interest. Check out the craft sections of your local library for pattern books, or create your own pattern. Here’s one for consideration: MACRAME PLANT HOLDER (leave the tail off, for a more modern look). Check out next Monday for highlights of our own macramé setup.

2. Ever thought about incorporating plant partitions and room dividers? You can use plants to divide open spaces -like lofts, to define or create rooms, or even as window treatments to minimize or filter direct light. Make custom plant boxes or group in rows to create short dividers that still allow for open space. Try placing plants at the bottoms of bookshelves or on top of sideboards. Here are some examples:


3. Plants make interesting extensions to furniture. Planter boxes recessed into cabinets/credenzas, adjoining parts of sofas and seating areas create organic style. You don’t have to buy new furniture but you will have to customize planter boxes and get creative. Mimic furniture material and shape into the design of planter containers for a seamless flow.


4. Art is in the eye of the beholder. Why not try highlighting plants as living art forms - replacing sculptures with plants, adding a zen, rock or terrarium bio-dome… if you’re green thumb savvy why not create wall art with pruned climbers like ivy or rose.

5. Find an interesting vessel. As humans we tend to accumulate an abundance of ‘stuff’. There are no shortages of holders… let crazed cups and pottery, that would otherwise be discarded, do double duty as plant holders. Try adding a single herb to individual favourite mugs for a custom herb garden. Use glass jars, pitchers, cleaned paint cans or whatever inspires you to create mini-homes for your greenery.











Hopefully these ideas will seed new ideas and creativity when considering plants in your home. After all, allowing plants to become an extension of your living space just means we all benefit.

(room divider photos from "guide pratique de la decoration", selection du readers digest 1972; furniture extension photos from "The Spacemaker Book" Liman-Viking 1977)

Thursday, June 5, 2008

Home is Where Our Heart Lies






A few pics of the ever changing showroom.